how in the hell could things get so wrong???

hmmm well were do i start lol. first i meet this beautiful person about a year and a half ago and now shes gone from my life and im really hurt by it. i been trying to get her back but havent been lucky in that department. i been with so many girls within my life but i felt that she was the one that i really wanted to settle down with. yesterday i tried to get her back but it didnt work and i knew it wasnt but had to try cuz im deeply in love wit this person and her son. well she told me that she has sumone already and i hung up the phone. so after that we started talkin on txt and that didnt go well so now i basically lost out on what i wanted as my family. she said i wanted to long to do everything that we wanted to do but i feel i didnt. is it wrong that i wanna make sure that i wanna be in her sons life? and now that i kno she and her son is what i want its to late? now that i really wanted to live wit this person and be a father to her son now i dont have her. hell i wanted to marry her but now i lost her. she tells me to move on and i have no ova choice but to but how do u move on when all u wanna do is be the father to her son or her husband????? well i think thats all for today any advice would be great

Barnabus (2007-07-06)
Perhaps you have to love her enough to let her go!! Makes one wonder how the women you broke up with felt!!?

Hardcore_Pyro (2007-07-06)
I not sure what kind of advice that I can offer you other than allowing her some time to miss you. This also may give you a chance to show her how strong you are and you can use this time to prove yourself through action and not by words alone. It can also benefit her son to see how a man handles real problems and comes through with real solutions. I wish you the best of luck. No matter what the outcome to your relationship with this woman the skills you learn from it may help in future relationships.

Aiyana (2007-07-06)
I would dazzle you with amzing advice that would instantly fix everything, but I'm afraid I can't. All I can really tell you is explain how you feel and tell her flat out that you really want to try and make it work. From what I hear it sounds like you really truly want to be with her. Explain that to her.

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