helping the best i can
2007-10-27
well i been trying to help with shantes stress since her son is still in the hospital and i hope its working. as much as i hate to say this but im starting to think that hes not gunna make it but i pray that im wrong. i dont wanna see anything happen to him. im talkin to shante now as i write this tryin to make her laugh with my foolishness hahaha its working so far or i think it is. lastnight she kinda brung up maxi again. she told me that she always thought i liked her. i told her hell nah nicca!! hahaha shes just my friend. im kinda surpised at myself. i neva given up on anything before but her. i dont wanna but dont have a choice its either try to get her back make her mad and lost 2 of the most important people of me life ( her son is the second ) or be her friend and side by her side thru all that life throws at her. so i chose. im gunna see her monday cuz i got her son a cartoon so he can watch while at the hospital and we are gunna have lunch also. maybe i can take her mind of off things for a few hours its the least i can do. well ill keep you guys posted as always.
Barnabus (2007-11-03)
I'm really sorry buddy, this has got to be really tough to get through!! I think she would be far better off sticking with you! but she has to make the choice, and rightly or wrongly...she will! I honestly don't look for a marriage with Yamil to last very long, and maybe you can pick up the pieces afterward! I don't know if he has a job or not, but he's really into conputer games, so he won't hve much time for her!! but she has to learn this...probably the hard way! I'm hoping you find a new love in the meantime! Someone you can really give your heart to, and they will accept and appreciate you. I really believe this is going to happen...just wishing it would happen sooner...rather that later!!
scribbles (2007-10-28)
Yes, your friendship is helpful and takes her mind off of lots of the little things that can make her crazy if you are not there.
Mary Mary Quite Contrary (2007-10-27)
Keep being the friend that she needs - that both her and her son needs
Barnabus (2007-10-27)
She is certianly going to need a lot of support, and it looks like you're the man for the job!! It don't look like Yamil is too well into the 'support business!!"
