happy
2007-11-16
well about two days ago me and shante started talking again. she sent me a txt saying how tj was doing and not to txt her back but a few hours later she txt me back and we been talking since. well i asked her today if i can go to the hospital to see tj and she said yes. so after work im gunna go and see him. im happy cuz i thought i would never see him again and really sad cuz i know this will be the last time i ever see him cuz of hes cancer. i dont know what im gunna do when i get over there. im prolly gunna see tj and start crying and tell him im so sorry for everything. i know if he passes away and shante asked me to go to the funeral i wont go. i couldnt take it to see him there not alive but i will vist his grave every chance i get. i can promise that much. i truly wish i could take his place. ill keep yall posted
crazylady (2007-11-16)
I agree with the rest of them, you need to go, they could use your support, but not only that when TJ sees you it will make him feel so much better seeing happy people. Haveing friends and family around during this time seems to ease the pain and sadness of someone passing. Like Ken said in the future you may regret that you didn't go.
The lord has a way of helping us through the difficult times.
Mary Mary Quite Contrary (2007-11-16)
Be there for both of them gladiator...they will both need you...and Shante' will need you at the funeral...go because you care so much for both of them, and lean on The Lord, He will be strong for you.
Barnabus (2007-11-16)
The most important thing you can do for TJ is pray for him!! and pray with hime...when you go and see him...Yeh I really think you should go to the funeral! He's your friend...gotta do what friends do!!
Hardcore_Pyro (2007-11-16)
You may regret not going to the services if that should happen.
